San Diego Divorce Attorney Blog

This blog has posted two articles about the Trial of Shelley Malil, Los Angeles actor who dated and was arrested for stabbing Kendra Beebe in 2008 when he came to her home uninvited and found her conversing with another man. On September 16, 2010, the jury reached a Guilty verdict for premeditated attempted murder as reported by Dana Littlefield of the San Diego Union Tribune. La Jolla divorce attorneys are not shocked as domestic violence can occur in relationships all over town and all sections of society.

The first blog (found here) discussed how Malil's defense attorney tried to use a "lie" from the victim, Beebe, which occurred in her divorce, child custody, case, against her in the criminal case. The blog discussed the significance of truthful testimony in San Diego divorce cases and how a lie, when discovered, can be used against a person in the divorce case and in other proceedings. This blog was significant as it displayed how Kendra Beebe could have been stabbed with a butcher knife over 20 times and the perpetrator of this domestic violence gave the jury a reason to return with a "not guilty" verdict simply based on the fact that the victim had previously lied in another court about an unrelated matter. San Diego Certified Family Law Specialist attorneys are familiar with the significance of lies in family law cases.

The second blog (found here) reported defendant Malil's testimony and commented on how difficult it was to believe his testimony. Should he not have taken the stand to testify? Did he think his acting experience would assist his presentation in front of the jury? When he took the stand he told a seemingly convoluted story which directly confronted and appeared to contradict the foundational facts of the criminal trial. The victim, Beebe, called the testimony "bizarre fiction" after the jury verdict. Apparently, the jury, after hearing Malil call Beebe a liar, did not believe Malil's testimony.

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This blog reported previously on the ongoing criminal trial in Vista California. Actor Shelley Malil is the defendant charged with attempted murder and other felony charges for the knife stabbing of Kendra Beebe. The prior blog dealt with the fact that the defense attorney caused victim Beebe to admit that she had previously lied in court in her family law case. This was done in an attempt to cause the jury to have less regard for the victim and to allow the defense to argue, in closing, that the victim's testimony in the criminal trial may not have been truthful. As a La Jolla divorce attorney, this blog posts articles on actors and family law issues; however this case is different.

However, last Thursday, actor Shelley Malil, the defendant, took the stand and testified according to a Fox News article published on 9/10/10. Defendant Malil has pleaded Not Guilty to the attempted murder, assault with a deadly weapon and other charges. He testified that he never intended to hurt Beebe. He was shown pictures of the knife wounds that Beebe suffered and testified that he had "no idea" that the knife he was holding caused those injuries. Really? He testified that he came to Beebe's home the night of the attack and found her drinking wine with another male. Why did he come to the home with a knife? Why did he not leave when he saw Beebe with someone else? Did he just drop in? Uninvited? With a knife? What was his intent? (The prosecutor claims Kalil used two knives.) Beebe was stabbed over 20 times, suffered a punctured lung but survived the attack.

Family law domestic violence cases often result in criminal prosecutions. Divorce court Domestic Violence Restraining Orders are treated seriously and can result in the loss of child custody rights, an order for attorney's fees, a higher spousal support order and other consequences. Criminal defendants have a right to remain silent. The prosecution must prove the case beyond a reasonable doubt. Defendant Kalil may have decided that the prosecution is proving its case and that he has no choice but to testify.

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News reports continue regarding the Mel Gibson case and two of them are described in this blog. As you may know, Mel Gibson, affluent Hollywood actor commenced a relationship with Oksana , Russian pianist. A child reportedly of this relationship was born on October 30, 2009. During the summer of 2010, Oksana obtained a restraining order against Mel Gibson wherein she claimed domestic violence. A number of voice tapes found their way into the media. Recently there was a report that the tapes were altered in some way. Law enforcement has yet to decide whether or not to prosecute Mel Gibson; and last, but not least, Oksana filed for and received a temporary child support order. Reportedly, Mel Gibson pays Oksana $5000 per month plus he pays the expenses (in an amount unknown) for a home in Los Angeles where Oksana and the child lives.

This blog has previously reported on the Mel Gibson-Oksana Grigorieva case. Particularly as to the Domestic Violence Restraining Order and the tape recording evidence that is being used in Oksana's case and which may itself constitute a legal violation.

As a San Diego Certified Family Law Specialist attorney who has handled many cases of this nature, I can see that the parties are actually moving toward expanded litigation in court at this time. Occasionally, behind the scenes negotiations are moving forward in an effort to settle the case; however here, all of the reports lead this blog to conclude that settlement is not necessary. Consider the following reasons:

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Dana Littlefield is a news reporter for the San Diego Union Tribune and recently wrote a news article that has issues spilling over into divorce, child custody, domestic violence, attempted murder and lying. It is far more convoluted than it should be, but that is probably due to the background of this case, both in the area of criminal law and the divorce court case involving the victim. Just when you thought that the Real Housewives of Orange County was over the top, real life stories such as this are reported. As a San Diego child custody attorney this story caught my attention. Let's break it down:

First, Shelley Malil, (see photo) age 45, is an actor. He had a minor role in the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin. Second, Kendra Beebe, attractive, age 38, previously involved in a messy divorce case in San Diego County. Third, they met online. Forth, they started dating. Fifth, according to reports (possibly a criminal defense version of the facts), Beebe was seeing another man in August 2008 when Malil reportedly showed up at her home in Vista, California, with two knives. (Why two?) Sixth, Malil reportedly stabbed Beebe over 20 times puncturing Beebe's lung and causing other injuries. Seventh, Malil is now on trial for the attempted murder of Beebe. And finally, eighth, Malil's defense attorney cross examined Beebe, at Malil's felony trial, about the time that she lied in her child custody divorce case.

During a San Diego divorce case, Beebe was asked, under oath if she had removed the children from San Diego County. (It is typical to order that a parent will be notified when you take the children out of the County.) Beebe answered "no" under oath and that was a lie. She admitted to the lie in the Malil felony trial.

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This blog has posted several articles on the Jamie and Frank McCourt divorce and specifically the legal issue as to the validity of a post marital agreement signed by Mr. and Mrs. McCourt by which Frank McCourt claims sole ownership to the LA Dodgers baseball team. The trial is ongoing at this time as to this issue in a California divorce court. A LA Times article describes the second day in trial. To the surprise of many, Jamie McCourt had a great second day in this trial.
Meaning of post nuptial agreement: A "premarital" or "prenuptial" or "ante nuptial" agreement all mean the same thing--an agreement before the marriage. A "post marital" or "post nuptial" agreement is an agreement finalized after the marriage. These agreements are permitted under California law; however California limits what they can do. They can change the ownership of property; change property characterization; for example, community property to separate property or separate property to community property. They can provide for the amount and duration of spousal support. They cannot dictate child support or child custody. San Diego Certified Family Law Specialist attorneys frequently create and review premarital and post marital agreements.

The post marital agreement in the McCourt case transferred all ownership of the LA Dodgers to Frank and transferred the real estate to Jamie. Or did it? Frank has entered into evidence a signed post marital agreement that transfers the team to him. However, Jamie has now entered a signed agreement into evidence showing that Frank transferred all of the homes to Jamie and it does not mention the Dodgers. So, we have two signed agreements. Further, bank and loan documents indicate that the parties were acting co-owners to the team. Further, loan documents, signed by the parties showed that a loan was made to both of them as co-owners. Under California law, a loan creates funding and the money is either community property or separate property in character depending on how the loan was arranged.

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The >San Diego Union carried the story, just before the start of last weekend, of a billionaire who was sued by his adult children for the child support that they believed they should have received had their mother filed for guideline support instead of receiving non-guideline child support pursuant to signed, written contracts. It's an interesting story involving children suing their father for child support; a law suit for retroactive child support; and a child support issue decided by a jury.

Here are the individuals involved: Donald Bren reportedly a billionaire who made his money in real estate. Christie Bren, age 22, and David Bren, age 18, the children who never knew their bio-dad Donald and felt cheated by the amount of support paid. They filed suit upon attaining adulthood. And, finally, Jennifer McKay Gold, who had a relationship with Mr. Bren whereby the children Donald and Christie were born.

Reportedly, as each child was born, a child support contract was initiated between Bren and Gold. Child support, under California law, is determined by a mandatory guideline formula. The exception to this law applies in cases where the parents sign a private agreement for support; there is no public assistance helping mom and the children; the support is sufficient for the chid's needs; and, both parents voluntarily, without coercion, duress or fraud, enter into the agreement. Bren simply proved to the court that such agreements were executed between himself and Gold.

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As a La Jolla divorce attorney, I have seen many Petitions for divorce (dissolution of marriage) in the San Diego Superior Court. Many simply glance at the petition document assuming that the document only contains superficial information. I don't agree. This blog will examine the petition for divorce by Patricia Arquette wherein Patricia Arquette is the Petitioner and Thomas Jane is the Respondent.

Brief background: Patricia Arquette was born in 1968 and is 42 years old. She was raised in an actor centric family; commenced her acting career in 1986 and has appeared in many Hollywood movies. She was married to Nicolas Cage for 6 years and has been married to Thomas Jane since 2006.

On August 13, 2010 Patricia Arquette filed for divorce in the Central District Los Angeles Court. She lists one child, age 7. (This blog does not provide names of children.) The child was born three years prior to the marriage. Therefore there is a potential "Marvin" case which the attorneys will consider. (Michelle Marvin sued actor Lee Marvin to establish her common law marital rights as she and Lee were never married.)

She lists some separate property (for example, "jewelry") but states that there are other items which are "not presently known". As to community property Patricia Arquette states that there are such items however they are also "unknown". Some attorneys seek to extensively list all separate property and all community property however I don't see the value of doing this in the Petition. Possibly the "unknown" statement could be attacked as disingenuous. I like to simply state that the items will be listed in the mandatory Preliminary Declaration of Disclosure. The Declaration of Disclosure is mandatory in divorce cases and lists property, debt, income and expenses.

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As a San Diego Certified Family Law Specialist I look for what is said and not said in a story. These three California divorce news items contain both and what is not said is often the most important.

First, the news reported last week that Mel Gibson crashed his exotic sports car in the hills of Los Angeles. The new stories headlines regarding this event exclaimed some type of instability as instability seems to be the overall conclusion as to Mr. Gibson at this point.

I obtained a copy of the police report concerning the crash and you can examine this document on a TMZ site. The report states that at 8:35 p.m. a 2008 Maserati crashed on Malibu Canyon Road with no injury and no involvement of another motorist or pedestrian. Mr. Gibson remained at the scene and supplied all information to CHP officers. Most importantly, "DUI (driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol) is not suspected."

Second, there was a news story as to drive through prayer locations in California. While these locations do not exclusively deal with divorce, the pastor at one of the locations described that people show up and want prayer over common everyday issues--drugs, divorce or the loss of a job. The pastor described that people who don't go to church commonly show up as the prayer stand requires no commitment. He does not preach or try to convert; he simply offers love and prayer. You can only imagine that divorce, the loss of child custody rights, and other family law matters are present at this prayer stand.

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In the last blog I described the California divorce issues in the McCourt divorce of business valuation (how much are the LA Dodgers worth?), Post Marital agreements, and spousal support. For a short recap--Jamie and Frank McCourt own the Dodgers (only Frank owns according to him), they've been married for 30 years and are now going through a divorce (most expensive in California divorce history, according to some). Much of the information gained for this blog was from an article in Business Week written by Richard Siklos.

San Diego Certified Family Law Specialist attorneys use forensic witnesses to help determine the value and cash flow of a business. The bigger the business, the more income generated by a business, the more variables that will exist. However the principals are the same whether the business is a ML baseball team or a mom and pop grocery store. There are just going to be more zeros in the Dodger evaluation. Reportedly, the McCourts have withdrawn $100 million from the Dodgers since 2004. Since 2004 the McCourts bought homes for $20 million, $27 million, $6.5 million and $19 million. Land for 4.6 million. And the list of personal expenses goes on and on. (For example, a hair stylist in Beverly Hills was reportedly paid $150,000 a year to be available to come to the McCourt home per their hair styling needs.)

Frank will argue that the extravagant spending indicates that the parties were living over their means. This is California divorce talk for "I can't continue to pay Jamie over $600,000 a month in spousal support. She should realistically receive $200,000 per month." Jamie will argue that the spending illustrates their extreme wealth standard of living. This is California divorce talk for "Frank should be paying me $1 million a month in spousal support."

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As a Certified Family Law Specialist attorney working in La Jolla California I've seen some high income and asset cases. However the California divorce between Jamie and Frank McCourt, owners of the Los Angeles Dodgers baseball team, is reportedly one of the most expensive divorces in California history. There is an excellent article in Bloomberg Business Week magazine, author Richard Siklos, August 12, 2010 providing in depth coverage of this case. This blog will reference some of the comments from the article and add information from a Family Law Specialist's viewpoint.

The McCourts, Frank and Jamie, came from a humble starting point. Pooling together money to buy a parking lot on the East Coast, they became rich over many years of marriage and hard work. They failed in an attempt to buy the Boston Red Sox, but bounced back when they were able to buy the LA Dodgers from Fox. However, their current, ongoing divorce has been called the most expensive California divorce ever. An estimated expense of $19 million and the case has not yet been through trial. If they go through a full trial (for example, on the value of the baseball team), and then the losing side appeals the decision, the current cost of the divorce is probably less than one-half of what they will end up spending.

Under California divorce law, the court can bifurcate, or separate out, a key issue to the divorce case, and have a trial on that issue first. This is likely what the McCourts are doing as they have a trial scheduled to start on August 30, 2010 as to the value of the Dodgers. Frank says the Dodgers are worth approximately $800 million today. Jamie estimates the value is at least $1.5 billion. Frank claims to have a Post Marital Agreement (or Marital Agreement) signed by Jamie where she has signed over the team to Frank. If this agreement holds up, Jamie receives nothing regardless of how much the Dodgers are worth.

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Recently I read an article online regarding the services offered from different groups to change the high percentage of divorce filings in California. This ranges from churches offering pre marriage counseling to secular groups offering secular pre marriage counseling and premarital education. La Jolla divorce attorneys wonder if these services actually help to lower divorce statistics.

It's widely reported in California that 50% of the marriages end in divorce and the divorce rates for second marriages are much higher. Can these services significantly impact these rates?

This blog has just reported on premarital agreements. Typically, the person who possesses a significant amount of property and/or is wealthy will try to protect his/her assets from a divorce by having a prenuptial agreement signed prior to the marriage. San Diego Certified Family Law Specialists speculate whether these documents raise the chance of a divorce. While such premarital contracts are much needed and/or desired by the wealthy spouse (prior to marriage), these unromantic contracts seem to start the marriage with a focus on divorce.

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As a San Diego divorce lawyer who prepares premarital agreements, I am followed the marriage of Robbie Williams to Ayda Field on August 7, 2010 in Los Angeles. Mainly, because Williams had Field sign a premarital (prenuptial, ante nuptial) agreement prior to the marriage.

Not everyone in this country has heard of him however Robbie Williams is an entertainer (singer, songwriter) who's success in the British entertainment industry has earned him an estate of approximately $160 million.

In the past I have kept the file of a couple for whom I have prepared a premarital agreement in my office pursuant to an educated guess that the marriage would fail. I haven't been able to verify this suspicion with scientific data. Beth Potier of the Harvard News Office wrote an article stating that prenuptial agreements predict doom in a marriage, if for no other reason, the legal document is unromantic. With the divorce rate of approximately 50% for first time marriages and a higher divorce rate for second marriages, anything that makes the second marriage less romantic does seem to predict doom for the marriage.

I have had two trials in the last three years involving premarital agreements and a request to set aside the agreement. This litigation can alone be as expensive, laborious and time consuming as any litigation in family law. Here are some thoughts as to the preparation of a prenuptial agreement:

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There has been much interest by San Diego divorce attorneys and California divorce lawyers as to the recent story that Charlie Sheen was sentenced to essentially nothing as a result of his reported plea of guilty to a domestic violence charge in the State of Colorado.

My last blog was about this event and reported the facts from a news article. A well known Los Angeles attorney stated that Colorado rolled out the red carpet for Mr. Sheen. Others have commented that Mr. Sheen received "celebrity treatment" when he was sentenced to a California rehab center and given credit for time already served there which could mean that Mr. Sheen faces little or no consequence in this case. Mr. Sheen was arrested after his wife called 911 in Colorado and reportedly stated that Mr. Sheen threatened her with a knife and that she was "scared for my life..." further that, "I thought I was going to die for one hour." (This is reported in the Daily Mail article by Daniel Bates.)

The last blog established what constitutes "domestic violence" under California Family Law. Further, who is entitled to protection in the San Diego divorce court for Domestic Violence Restraining Orders. And, how findings of domestic violence can alter the custody and support orders issued in the San Diego Family Law courts.

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As a San Diego divorce lawyer and Certified Family Law Specialist for over thirty years I have seen substance abuse, alcohol abuse and many other factors will cause tension and stress to build and many time release itself in the form of spousal abuse, or domestic violence.

Domestic violence, simply put, is a type of prohibited violence (usually an assault or a battery) committed by one person of a statutorily defined relationship against another person of the same defined relationship (usually a married couple). The violence is of the type that puts the victim in fear of harm (usually bodily injury) by virtue of the violence of the perpetrator. If a Domestic Violence Restraining Order is granted by the court, the victim will be the protected party and the perpetrator will be the restrained party.

Domestic Violence may result in criminal and/or civil court actions and consequences. A recent news story described that actor Charlie Sheen pled guilty to a charge of committing domestic violence (criminal) against his Wife in Aspen Colorado. The assault occurred last December and Mr. Sheen just entered his plea. According to the plea bargaining, Mr. Sheen will not be sent to jail however he may serve time at a rehab center in California (this decision is reportedly up to the rehab center whether Mr. Sheen will receive credit for prior days spent in the rehab center).

This plea deal and court order reportedly caused California attorney Gloria Allred to openly criticize the sentencing. The Riley Center reports that 50% of all women murdered in the US are murdered by a spouse or close acquaintance. Further that domestic violence occurs in 60% of all marriages. In my experience, domestic violence is perpetrated by both Husbands and Wives.

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As a San Diego Divorce attorney and Certified Family Law Specialist, I constantly read articles published in my field. There is an in depth article about the Jamie and Frank McCourt California divorce which is ongoing at this time. The article was published by ESPN The Magazine and written by Molly Knight. It should be must reading for anyone about to get a divorce. The lessons of the McCourt case apply to all. There are just several zeros missing from the average Californian's divorce and the McCourt's case; however the issues are the same.

Jamie and Frank McCourt own the LA Dodgers. They had a humble wedding in their apartment in 1979. A Rabbi played the piano. Since that date they have amassed millions (billions?) through their relationship--their mutual trust--their hard work combined with their talents. Marriage requires trust. When it works, a couple can do almost anything.

After this incredible history, the article put together by Ms. Knight, describes how Jamie McCourt learned of her Husband's decision to end the marriage through a 405 word e-mail message starting with "Dear Jamie". Now their case is headed towards a Family Law trial. Here are some thoughts:

If you have children: Prior to reaching this point spend some time in counseling. Either secular or church marriage counseling. During the marriage find some way to stay grounded. How did this humble couple become so insensitive to each other that those around them passed on rumors of their fights? And a marriage ending with a CEO like e-mail? Working together to make vast sums of money is great and an inspiration to others; however, trouble begins when the importance of the money supersedes people and relationships.

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